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Genogram Controlling Relationship Symbol
The controlling relationship symbol is shown as a red line marked with a boxed X, with an arrow pointing from the person exerting control toward the person being controlled. Use it when power imbalance or coercive influence is important to the case. This guide explains when to use it and how it differs from abuse or hostility.
Controlling Symbol Example in a Genogram
Controlling Symbol Example in a Genogram
Harold Whitfield still manages his adult son Dennis Whitfield's finances, decides who Dennis can see, and weighs in on decisions Dennis should be making on his own.
Harold sits in his existing structural position as Dennis's father, and the controlling line runs from Harold to Dennis, arrow pointing at Dennis, showing the direction the control flows.
Controlling vs. Hostile vs. Abuse
- Controlling: red line, boxed X, directional. Marks a power imbalance that restricts the other person's autonomy or decisions.
- Hostile: red jagged line, directional or mutual. Marks open antagonism or dislike.
- Abuse: indigo line, directional. Marks abusive conduct between two people.
Controlling is narrower than abuse.
It's specifically about restricted decision-making or autonomy, not a stand-in for abuse, and it can exist without hostility on the surface at all.
How to Add It in EasyGenogram
Select the relationship line, choose Controlling, click the person exerting control first, then the person being controlled.
Controlling Symbol Example in a Genogram
Explore this genogram and adapt it to your needs.
FAQ
What does the controlling symbol look like on a genogram?
A red line marked with a boxed X, with an arrow pointing from the person exerting control toward the person being controlled.
Is the controlling line directional?
Yes. The arrow shows who holds the control and who it's directed at.
What's the difference between controlling and abusive genogram symbols?
Abuse marks abusive conduct broadly. Controlling is narrower, it specifically marks a restriction on the other person's autonomy or decision-making, which may or may not involve abuse.
What's the difference between controlling and hostile genogram symbols?
Hostile marks open antagonism or dislike. Controlling marks a power imbalance, one person dictating the other's choices, which can exist without visible hostility.
Can a controlling dynamic be mutual?
Not in one line. Add the controlling line twice, once per direction, if both people control different aspects of the relationship.