Individual and couple use
The same discernment mechanic supports internal gridlock for individuals and side-by-side entries for couples.
Needs vs. Wants discernment tool
The Needs vs. Wants Tool is a schema therapy and schema couples therapy comparison tool for practitioners working with individuals or couples stuck in demands, conclusions, or negotiating positions. It helps clients distinguish immediate wants from underlying emotional needs and express those needs in language that can guide a more flexible therapeutic conversation.
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Tool guide
Learn more about this tool
Use this background section to understand when the tool fits, how practitioners use it, and what to consider before sharing it with clients.
Uncertainty support
A want can remain unresolved when the underlying need is not yet clear. The tool should not force a conclusion.
Speaker attribution
Needs remain attributed to the client, partner, or practitioner note rather than being treated as system-discovered facts.
Does the tool infer hidden needs automatically?
No. Needs are entered by clients, partners, or the practitioner and remain attributed to their source.
Can it be used with couples?
Yes. Couple layout gives each partner separate space while preserving the same wants-versus-needs comparison.
What if a want cannot be linked to a need yet?
The need can remain unresolved with an uncertainty note.
Is this a negotiation tool?
No. It supports need-versus-want discernment for therapeutic conversation and does not score or manage negotiation outcomes.